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There are so many voices at play in our world today.Many of these encourage us to rush into marriage with anyone as soon as we find a strong attraction.It serves as a basis for building the Christian dating relationship into as healthy a one as possible BEFORE marriage.(I highly recommend the inventories developed by Dr. There are many counselors who can provide Christian singles with insights into the results found in these inventories.

I encourage you to not look for the “exception” but where you can build the type of Christian dating relationship that will serve you and your partner well for years to come.) 1.There is an attraction to each other and Christian singles immediately (or soon thereafter) think they have found their soul mate.Candidly, there is really little more in the Christian dating relationship during this stage than “physical attraction”. There is a temptation for Christian singles to begin saying, “I love you” during this fantasy stage. The emphasis should be upon enjoying each other’s company and building a FRIENDSHIP and refraining from going any further. After 2 to 3 months of this type of dating and it is mutually agreed, the Christian dating relationship can move into an exclusive dating arrangement.This often means that a healthy bonding is not taking place and the emphasis is upon self-satisfaction in this Christian dating relationship. It is very important to look for CHARACTER issues in each other during this stage of Christian dating.Give yourself enough time and enough settings where character issues can surface. Individuals can “mask” character issues for an extended period of time – especially a few months during the fantasy period of Christian dating.

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