Dating american ladies
Are you that insecure that you don’t believe some guy actually called you without any premeditated planning whatsoever?
That perhaps the world is not a series of planned steps to be executed in perfect sequence?
In most of the world outside US and Canada (e.g., in Brazil, Argentina, Romania and Ukraine), one can invite the girl out the same night after meeting her earlier during the day.
I invited a Brazilian girl I met at a cafe for a drink the same evening, and since she had no plans yet, she gladly agreed.
In Eastern Europe, it’s fully expected for the guy to pay for the girl (at least initially), since he was the one who invited her initially.
In exchange, you get to have a great interaction with a quality woman, instead of some crackberry addict with prepared interview questions or an over-the-hill stalker with family aspirations.
Women love compliments they deem as sincere and genuine. How they usually go overboard complimenting every woman by calling them “bella donna, beautiful, etc”?
She sure wasn’t bitchy and defensive like a typical American woman in similar situation.
I simply smiled and said that I couldn’t believe a beautiful woman like herself was sitting all alone (she was truly stunning).
She smiled, and feeling flattered responded whether I start a conversation with every woman like that.
A Latvian girl I met in Sweden commented right away how she found it strange when Swedes never opened the door for her.
This is has nothing to do with somehow pedestaling the girl, but more about being a bit more considerate to the weaker sex in non-feminized countries (which includes most of the world).