Dating older women and mommy
If he’s ready for a long-term relationship, he’ll make it known. He’s not out to waste time; he wants to know within a few dates whether you have potential or not.
Now, I’m not saying every older man is ready to settle down again. But they’ll be more upfront about it if they’re older.
Let’s look at both so you can decide whether dating an older man is appealing to you or not.
You’ve dated your share of men your age…and even younger.
I know a lot of women who prefer dating an older man.
Remember when you were a teen and your mom said that girls were two years more mature than guys the same age?
While all of these won’t be true of every older man (after all, many suffer from Peter Pan syndrome), as a whole, you’re going to realize more of these benefits with an older man. There’s a good chance he’s midway in his career, and therefore at least somewhat financially stable. It basically is the opposite of being broke, which is a libido-killer for most women.
Being financially stable isn’t about making 0k a year. It’s nice to date a man who can afford to pay for dinner.
Whose car doesn’t break down in front of your house… Who could afford to take a spontaneous weekend getaway with you…
A mature man isn’t in the middle of an identity crisis.
He knows who he is and what he wants, and he isn’t shy about communicating that.