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Apart from not flaunting alcohol in his face, there's not much more you can do because when you think you're helping you risk taking his power away, or even taking a stake in his success.Have a good read around the forums; they will be very educational. The one-year mark is a suggestion (as is everything in AA and Al Anon) not a rule, so no need to artificially put things on hold.My program had to come first for me; his, as he began to develop one; then our work together.Much more to all this but anything that puts add feelings of added risk on top of already challenging conditions like early sobriety...a good idea, in my opinion. Do keep reading and learning....and, I think that going to alanon would be a good move.....there would be nothing to lose by doing so.... Maybe in this getting to know him phase you might want to find out, how long was he drinking prior to becoming sober for 7 months. Does it matter if someone has been drinking heavily for 2 or 10 years?I think alcoholics/addicts in recovery are some of the strongest, most honest, most courageous people on earth.Its these very qualities that attract us to them and make us fall hard and fast in love.Sadly if a relapse does happen they turn into someone we dont even know.We then spend all our time, effort and energy trying to get that initial person we fell in love with back.
If I was to make one comment, it would be not to 'help' him in his recovery, in fact stay well away from it.
I did do a search first but didn't come across a similar thread, if there is one already please send me the link Has anyone ever dated someone who was in recovery?
A few weeks back i met this guy we have quite a lot of common friends and share the same hobby, so he ended up messaging me on Instagram.
Shortly after i met some of his close friends and again i fitted right in. I was shocked and did a lot of research to make myself more familiar with this his condition. Fjordline, I'm sure it will be great for both of you as long as he never relapses. Others may go for a long period, years, and then, for some reason, relapse.
We are both very honest with each other and we talk a lot. You'll see a few examples of this if you search around the threads.