Tips for an online dating profile
We wanted to ask the people that matter though, people who are actually looking to date!
We asked 1000 Elite Singles members what attracted them to other members’ profiles and what turned them off.
The way you describe yourself here allows other singles to have a small insight into your life and imagine being with you, so give a true snapshot of your life by writing expressively about who you are and boldly defining the type of relationship you want.
Our Elite Singles survey revealed that in the UK, the most despised trait on an online dating profile is poor spelling and grammar.
Your dating profile requires the same attention because it becomes easier for online daters to skip past such profiles rather than “waste time” on them.
Elite Singles Partner Psychologist, Relationship Coach Sam Owen, explains that, “Online daters will be asking themselves questions like, if his/her written language is sloppy, does that mean they’ll have a sloppy attitude towards me, not respect my time, turn up dressed shabby, forget commitments they’ve made to me if we started dating?
It isn’t just a turn off because it makes the person seem uneducated, it also suggests much more about them, their intentions and their commitment to the romantic journey.
Introduce your personal qualities as strengths so that you are remembered positively. An appealing dating profile is best achieved by avoiding general statements and thinking carefully about precisely why you should be contacted.
Here are some of our top tips for ensuring your profile page fully represents what you offer.
An upbeat attitude is essential if you want to win people over, so sit down to write your profile when you are in a positive frame of mind.
70% of our survey respondents would refuse a 2 date from someone they see has embellished and exaggerated in their profile.
Your online profile is there to help those you're matched with find out who you genuinely are.