Virgin women dating

My female friends keep telling me, “It’s not that big of a deal, and no girls over 20 are virgins.The fact they’ve had sex doesn’t change much.” But not only do I not believe them, there’s lots of scientific as well as biblical evidence for it being a big deal! There’s a lot bound up in it, so let me see if I can offer some thoughts on a few different fronts.I’ve been checking off the various boxes over the years to become a better mate, yet I cannot seem to find any girls of marriage potential.I have not been able to find any Christian girls who are virgins.If I successfully get a date, as it moves along I am constantly disappointed to find out they have had sex with numerous men before.Each makes the typical statement that they were mistakes and they’ve asked God for forgiveness and moved on.

I deeply wish that more single people — especially those who profess to be Christian — lived out that conviction.Second, if I’m reading between the lines of your question correctly (and I fully admit I may not be), it seems you are less interested in technical Old Testament law than in your feelings that a potential wife who has had sex before (1) has sinned against you as her (potential) husband; (2) raises potentially difficult marital issues for you involving feelings of betrayal, trust, and sexual adequacy and security; and (3) is not worthy to marry you.If these ideas reflect your thoughts, I think Scripture teaches you are right on the first two but wrong on the third.Also, just so I make sure I’ve said it, this biblical standard applies equally to men and women.I know that idea may go without saying for most people who will read this, but there are a number of cultures within the readership of Boundless in which sexual standards are different for men than for women.

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